TY  - BOOK
AU  - Leahy,Robert L.
TI  - If only...: finding freedom from regret 
SN  - 9781462547821
AV  - BF575.R33 L43 2022
U1  - 158.1 L47 23/eng/20211216
PY  - 2022///]
CY  - New York, London
PB  - The Guilford Press
KW  - Regret
KW  - Self-actualization (Psychology)
KW  - Self-confidence
N1  - Includes bibliographical references (pages 228-237) and index; Introduction Step 1. Understand Regret 1. What Is Regret? 2. How Regret Works Step 2. Learn to Make Good Decisions 3. What Assumptions Drive Your Decisions and Feed Your Regret? 4. How Do You Perceive Risk? 5. Does Anticipating Regret Lead You to Action or Inaction? 6. Making a Choice Step 3. Make Regret Work for You 7. Coping Effectively with Disappointing Outcomes 8. Stepping Away from Rumination 9. Learning from Guilt 10. Using Productive Regret A Final Word. Looking Back While Looking Ahead Resources References Index; CAS; Bachelor of Science in Psychology
N2  - "It's hard to envision a life without some regrets. We imagine what might have been if we had taken a different path at some key juncture in the past, whether about a relationship, a missed opportunity, or choosing where to live. Regret can make people feel disappointed, ashamed, and immobilized--but it also can be a powerful tool for self-knowledge and change. In this uplifting guide, renowned psychologist Robert Leahy demonstrates how to make regret work to our advantage. Using cutting-edge skills based on cognitive-behavioral therapy, Dr. Leahy shows how to get unstuck from regret and make decisions with more clarity and confidence. You are the author of your life, so go out and write the next chapter--and then live it"--
ER  -